Unless you have been entirely removed from American society for the past several weeks, you are aware that gas prices have risen to over $4 per gallon throughout the country. This has, for one, triggered feelings of anger towards the gas companies. I don’t want to discuss whether or not the gas companies are justified in charging what they do at the pump. I do want to discuss whether or not we should be totally consumed with the rising prices of gasoline, among other things. First, a story…
Yesterday afternoon I was filling up my car with gas at the local gas station. While I was enjoying the scenes- a couple of kids complaining to their mom for not buying them a bag of M&M’s, the old man next to me cleaning his windshield with disgusting, re-used water, etc. I noticed a beautiful car pull up to the pump. I’m not going to say what type of car this was but I will say that financing this vehicle would be nearly equivalent to financing an undergraduate education at a fine, East-coast school. The owner of this vehicle then proceeded to get out of the car and upon noticing the price for a gallon of premium gasoline, began using some colorful language to voice his frustration regarding the cost of fueling his week’s worth of transportation. Initially, I thought to myself, “Dude, are you kidding me? You are probably loaded- how can you be complaining about the price of a tank of gas?” Maybe he was really frustrated about something else and pulling up to the pump was the last straw before he had to let out a few words. I’m guessing that’s the case because I am really not so different from the guy who was driving the roadster. My external frustrations are often tethered to a deeper, internal issue. How often do I become fed up with things in life that do not go perfectly my way? Why does it frustrate me so much when the elderly woman in front of me at the check-out line at Target takes a little longer to get her groceries from the shopping cart on to the conveyor belt when I am in absolutely no hurry at all? Why do I become frustrated when I catch a red light after catching four green lights in a row? For me, my frustrations come out of a need to control my environment- to be the “master of my own fate.” Whether it is a desire to know that gas prices will stay under $4 per gallon, or a longing to know that my commute will take under 10 minutes, I want to be in control. Unfortunately, the reality of life is that I am not in control. None of us are in control! Someone greater is in control because He wants me to experience life outside of my comfort zone that all too often is not an accurate representation of how most people on this planet experience life. So, although I think we can certainly voice our frustrations regarding the inevitably increasing prices of gas, let us not have these frustrations consume us. Focusing on the positives in our lives over the negatives is completely contradictory to human nature. Still, though, I have learned that I have been made to experience life apart from my mundane, comfortable human nature.